Nowadays parents are teaching their children a lot on only
the material aspect of education. They make all necessary preparations in this
field ever since the birth of their children. Here, in Mauritius, we see
children being admitted to pre-primary schools at around 3 years old, and when
they reach their 5 years old, they go to primary school, then secondary, and
finally to university, be it locally or they are sent abroad (to pursue their
studies). Parents are ready to make debts so that their offspring study to
obtain a degree or diploma. They readily invest a lot of money to secure his
(material) future. They are even ready to mortgage their houses, lands to make
their children succeed in their advanced studies and become doctors, engineers
or lawyers etc., and they do it all with much pride.
All these endeavours are very good, I am not
condemning this, but you (parents) should not look at only the material aspect
of your children’s education. When you do so, you let this world attract you
more so that you may get acclamations in society as the parent/s of such
doctor, lawyer etc; and, this despite being overloaded with debts which you
contracted to make him/her reach this level of mundane success. And, this
despite the fact that there is no guarantee that he/she is grateful to you for
the sacrifices done to make him/her get his/her diploma; he may as well neglect
you and cast you aside. Or, despite the efforts made, even if your child
succeed in becoming a doctor, engineer, lawyer etc., but at the end of the day
he is null in Deen (religious) matters.
All in all, it is a serious matter for you as parents if all this does not
affect you the least.
The neglect of Deen
If your child turned out to be ungrateful and/or
disconnected with religion after having obtained his degree as a doctor, or
lawyer, and he does not pray Salat/Namaz, neglect the reading of the Holy Qur'an
and is not at all attached to the religion of Islam, does this not bring a
regret in your heart? Does this not affect you if he is Muslim only in name? Then,
who is responsible for this state of affairs? This makes you go back in time to
see whether you have given him some teachings of the religion of Islam (and how
much of it). If ever you actually gave him some training in Deen (religious) matters, then bear in
mind that this is not restricted to only a little practice of Namaz (obligatory prayers) – even then,
even if prayer is not done in time – or a little reading of the Holy Quran –
whenever he gets the time to do so! Despite a little practice of Namaz (Salat) and Qur'an reading, bear in mind
that your child has not obtained all Islamic teachings!