“End of Year Festivities”:
Like you are aware, the
year 2015 is coming to a close. We are living the last days of the year 2015
and particularly the month of December. The month of December is also a month
known as the month of festivities. Many people make therein provisions for
celebrations and amusement. The public, private and industrial sectors which
all their companies organise end of year parties and this applies also for
individual family units who organise Christmas parties (today is Christmas) and
end of year festivities.
In such situations, a
Muslim must take precautions to preserve his faith, and not to abandon the
teachings of Islam and the perfect role model which Hazrat Muhammad (pbuh)
represents. It is not forbidden to have lunch or dinner between friends and
office colleagues, in any workplace (which is licit for a Muslim), but it is
strictly forbidden for a Muslim to associate himself with illicit/forbidden
things and practices. And especially in end of year parties where there is an
unlimited amount of alcoholic drinks which are served. You may be tempted by
friends to drink a little, to have a toast for “good health”. They may tell
you: “Come on, the year is ending. Please
us, and have a drink with us, to toast for good health”. And thus, to
please them you forget the commandments of Allah!
Do you really think
that alcoholic drink shall bring you good health? Or will it destroy your
health?
A glass (of alcohol) will become two and shall keep on increasing, and
thus there shall be no difference between you and them, for then you shall enter
such a trap which shall be grievous (for you) in the eyes of Allah. Your good
deeds done during a year such as: Prayers, remembrance of Allah, supplications,
recitation of the Holy Quran, Fasting during the month of Ramadan, sacrifices
done during that holy month, as well as blood (animal) sacrifice (Qurbani) done, shall be in vain. Also,
many of our brothers and sisters did lots of sacrifices to perform the fifth
pillar of Islam (Hajj). Now on a whim
you prefer to burn down these good deeds with alcohol, cigarettes, fireworks
and you begin to dance to their tune with all their drinking habits, singing
and dancing, and thus you replace what is good, that is, acts of worship with
bad things.
Muslim women and girls
who have a job must also take great precaution so as not to fall prey to
consuming Haram (illicit) food. Do
not fall prey to those vices for those vices shall lead you in a vicious circle
in which you shall not be able to come out. Muslim women and girls must take
precautions for in these kinds of parties, men and women mingle together and
thus there is no Pardah.
Ponder over this: You are barred from
mosques and prayers in congregation as well as Jummah prayers, but to
participate in your workplace in these kinds of end of year parties, is that
not Haram for you? Is this Halal? Are those so-called Mullahs and
great defenders of Islam doing nothing to protect the dignity and honour of our
Muslim brothers and sisters, to stop them from falling into these kinds of
traps? Very often we see parents authorising their children (boys and girls) to
attend those kinds of end of year celebrations. They come back home quite late
in the night and some even spend the whole night out with strangers with all
their end of year amusements. They enjoy themselves so much that they go beyond
limit and return back home late or remain outside without any performance of
prayer etc. Indeed, where there is such amusement, there is no prayer!