Allah the Exalted has said: “Verily, you (Muhammad) are on an exalted standard of character”.
(Surah Al-Qalam 68:5)
Allah furthermore says: “O you who believe! Do not
enter the houses of the Prophet for a meal without permission. If you are
invited, you may enter, but be punctual (so that you will not be waiting while
the meal is being prepared). When you have finished
eating, leave his home. Do not sit around chatting among yourselves. This will
annoy the Prophet but he will feel embarrassed to tell you. God does not feel
embarrassed to tell you the truth...” (Al-Ahzab
33: 54)
This is a reference to a particular incident. Some
companions stayed longer than what was proper on this occasion at the home of the
Messenger of Allah (pbuh) who was anxious to retire for the night. They
continued in conversation. Although the Prophet of Allah (pbuh) was
inconvenienced by their late stay, he nevertheless refrained from telling them
anything. This was in regard to his personal matters and not to such affairs
which came within the purview of Tabligh.
Hazrat Abu Sa’id Al-Khudri (ra) narrated “The Prophet (pbuh) was more shy (from Haya: i.e. pious shyness from committing religious indiscretions) than a veiled virgin girl.”