Sunday, April 27, 2025

'Al-Hayaa' : Modesty in Islam

  

In Islam, Al-Hayaa is a noble quality that represents modesty, humility, and shame in a positive sense of the term. Our beloved Prophet Hazrat Muhammad (pbuh) emphasized its importance, saying: “Faith (Iman) has over seventy branches, and modesty is an essential part of it.” (Bukhari). This virtue is deeply connected to faith, as Hazrat Muhammad (pbuh) also stated: “Modesty and faith are inseparable. If one disappears, the other will also vanish.” (Baihaqi)

 

The Holy Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) was himself a model of modesty. Hazrat Abdullah Ibn Umar (ra) reported that the Prophet (pbuh) never looked at people in an inappropriate way, even during a time when nudity was present, such as during pagan rituals around the Ka’aba. He (pbuh) also taught: “Modesty brings only good.” (Bukhari)

 

In the Holy Quran, Allah commands believers to protect their chastity and lower their gaze: “Tell the believers to lower their gaze and guard their chastity. That is purer for them. Indeed, Allah is fully aware of what they do.” (An-Nur, 24: 31). This verse puts emphasis on the importance of modesty as a way to purify the soul and strengthen faith.

 

In today’s world, society faces a decline in moral values, worsened by the influence of the media and Western culture. Pornography, which was once marginal, has become widespread due to the internet and modern technology.

 

Indecent content is now easily accessible, with just a click on a computer mouse or smartphone. Additionally, some television channels broadcast sexually explicit films late at night. What is concerning is the increasing number of people who are becoming dependent on such content, with the numbers continuously rising. Inappropriate videos can now be easily downloaded onto smartphones and are often shared among friends through private networks.

 

This early and excessive exposure to immoral content has distorted young people’s perceptions of relationships and weakened their faith (Iman). The Holy Prophet (pbuh) warned: “When indecency is part of something, it makes it defective; and when modesty is part of something, it makes it more beautiful.” (Tirmidhi)

 

Alongside exposure to pornography, alcohol addiction and drug abuse are also serious issues affecting society. These harmful influences distort people’s judgment, weaken their faith, and lead them away from moral principles. Young Muslims, like others, are not spared from these dangers. Such practices normalize immorality and encourage destructive behaviours, threatening social harmony and family stability. It is crucial to educate and guide young people to recognize these dangers and protect themselves. We must instill values of modesty, self-restraint, and integrity, as taught in Islam. Together, we must act to preserve the purity of our souls and build a society based on strong and virtuous principles.

 

Therefore, it is essential to teach children from a young age about the importance of modesty. Whether boys or girls, they should learn to dress properly in a respectful and modest manner, behave respectfully in society, and avoid harmful influences from the media, so-called “modern fashions,” and bad company that may lead them astray. Hazrat Muhammad (pbuh) said: “Every religion has a distinctive characteristic, and that of Islam is modesty.” (Abu Dawud, Al-Muwatta).

 

A Muslim child must understand that modesty is an essential virtue that preserves the purity of the heart and strengthens faith. Neglecting modesty puts one’s connection with Allah at risk. Just as jealousy can destroy good deeds, exposure to unlawful content can weaken the soul and compromise spiritual efforts. It is therefore very important to remain constantly vigilant and avoid harmful influences that lead people – especially young Muslims – away from righteousness.

 

Parents, educators, and leaders have a great responsibility in instilling these values in young people. When we teach modesty, we are not only protecting our children but also safeguarding the future of the Muslim community (Ummah). As one saying goes: “One who imitates others loses their identity.” Muslims should seek inspiration from the teachings of our beloved Prophet (pbuh) rather than from Western models.

 

On the contrary, Muslims should strive to be role models for others. We must be leaders in modesty and righteousness, setting an example for others to follow. Hazrat Muhammad (pbuh) was the perfect model of integrity and demonstrated the true value of Al-Hayaa (modesty) and its close link to Iman (faith). If a Muslim loses their modesty, they risk losing their faith too. Therefore, it is essential to protect both our faith and our modesty. Young Muslims must realize this before it is too late. The Ummah cannot progress if its youth fall into the traps and dangers of modern immorality. They must remember that they are the future of the Muslim community. If the future generation falls into these traps, the entire Ummah will suffer. This is a serious concern that all Muslims must take to heart and work to change for the better, ensuring that Islam and its values are preserved.

 

May Allah grant us the wisdom and strength to uphold modesty in our daily lives and guide our children on the right path. Modesty is a light that illuminates the heart and strengthens faith. May this virtue, i.e. Al-Hayaa, be deeply cherished, preserved, and passed on to future generations, Insha-Allah, Ameen.


---25 April 2025~ 25 Shawwal 1446 AH delivered by Imam- Jamaat Ul Sahih Al Islam International Hazrat Muhyiuddin Al Khalifatullah Munir Ahmad Azim (aba) of Mauritius.