'Respect Rights; Fulfill Duties'- 2
By the
grace of Allah, I pursue the same subject-matter of my sermon of last Friday in
which I talked about the having great considerations for the rights of our
Muslim brethren. The rights explained are applicable to all Muslims in general.
However, it is obvious that the importance and significance of rights will
increase if these are related to special people.
In
regard to rights, parents enjoy priority and greater significance because of
their close relationship with their offspring. The rights of parents are
unanimously accepted. I will not therefore elaborate on the details of these rights,
as they are foremost mentioned in the Holy Quran and Hadiths, unless the
parents deviates the child and intimates him or her to adopt false gods other
than the true God, i.e. Allah. But even then, despite the wall of difference
between parents and children who do not share the same faith, whether the
parents are true Muslims and their children non-Muslims or vice-versa, even
then Islam while ordaining the believers not to obey the disbelievers, even if
they be their parents when they force them [i.e. the children] to worship
others than Allah, Islam also commands that the non-Muslim parents be respected
and treated well. They are not to be obeyed in religious matters, but
concerning the affairs of the world, the children should show consideration and
respect towards them and pray for their salvation.
In all
things [and situations] there should be a balance. Like I taught you about the
equilibrium which there needs to be in one’s own reform and preaching the unity
and message of Allah, likewise, Islam teaches equilibrium of the rights of
parents. Almighty Allah says in the Holy Quran: “Surely,
Allah commands you to deliver trusts to those entitled to them, and that, when
you judge between people, judge with justice.” (An-Nisa, 4: 59)