In his special sermon of October 05, 2012 on the occasion of the
Annual Conference [“JALSA SALANA”] of the Jamaat Ul Sahih
Al Islam International, the Khalifatullah Hadhrat Munir Ahmad Azim Sahib (atba) of Mauritius reflected on the
fundamental values and structural norms on which the edifice of human society
is constituted. The speech explains, in simple and eloquent manner, the Islamic
family values which are designed to address all the vagaries of human nature
and the complex contingencies of man-woman relationships in society.
Read the Extracts from the Sermon:
Another
infrastructural unit for human society is the family. To constitute a family,
the most important part is the relationship between man and woman. Just as
Islam has laid down certain rules for the honour and responsibility of man, it
has placed woman also on the same footing with respect to man. The Holy Quran
says: “They are a garment for you and you are a garment
for them.” (2: 188)
Besides, the
Quran has placed both man and woman on the same status of equality so far as
their rights are concerned by declaring: “O
you who believe! It is not lawful for you to inherit a woman against their
will; nor should you detain them wrongfully that you may take away part of that
which you have given them, except they be guilty of a flagrant evil; and
consort with them in kindness, and if you dislike them, it may be that you
dislike a thing wherein Allah has placed much good.” (4: 20)
Moreover, the
following verse of the Holy Quran shows the basis of the relationship between
men and women: “And one of His signs
is this, that He has created wives for you from among yourselves that you may
find peace of mind in them, and He has put love and tenderness between you. In
that surely are signs for a people who reflect.” (30: 22)
The only means
of creating a relationship between man and woman is marriage. In today’s world
the choice of a partner is made on the following consideration: beauty, wealth
and social standing. That’s the reason why difficulties arise and multiply, in
social life. Our Holy Prophet (saw) has said: “The first
thing to consider when a partner is sought for is virtue and moral standing.”