Self-confidence, that is, when a believer
believes in his own abilities, remains a necessary condition to progress in
life. Without self-confidence, a person remains paralysed by fear and
uncertainty. But Islam teaches that self-confidence must always be accompanied
by the awareness that all strength and success come only by Allah’s permission.
The Holy Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) said: “The strong one is not the one who
overcomes others by his strength, but the strong one is the one who controls
himself when he is angry.” (Bukhari, Muslim). This shows that true
self-confidence is not found in physical strength, but in self-control, inner
discipline, and in entrusting ourselves – all of us – entirely to Allah.
Trust in parents and in one’s surroundings also
has great value. That environment must be worthy of trust. A society rests upon
mutual trust; without trust, there is neither stability nor respect. In Islam,
respect and trust towards parents remain a sacred obligation. Allah says in the
Qur’an: “And We have enjoined upon man to treat
his parents well.” (Al-Ankabut 29: 9).
But human trust, despite its importance, remains limited; absolute trust, the one that never disappoints, is trust in Allah.





